Relation.... to whom

Getting married and coming into a family is more than just getting a wonderful man to love, it is getting so much more. You are blessed with extended family, when the union happens you will learn more from this extension, than you will anywhere else in this whole wide world.

You start by learning more about how your husband is effected by his family and yours, and visa versa (That of course is to be expected) than you learn and appreciate how you are effected by your own family and his. Than the biggest lesson you will ever learn is who you are.

Someone once said to me, " The family you were sent to was meant to be your family, because God knew who would teach you the most."  The more I reflect on this statement the more I know it to be true. I has been my family on both sides that has given me the hardest lessons to learn.  And I could never express how grateful I am that they did.

A lot of the times I have wished I could have learned those lessons on my own and felt that i was suppose to learn them with out the aid of family, yet when it comes down to it, it was these wonderful beings that I am bond to for all time and eternity that gave me the right emotions and tools to either start the lesson or to finish and learn the lesson.

I wonder if this is why Lucifer is always trying to brake families apart? With out the people God placed in your life to teach you what you are suppose to learn than how can you become who you are suppose to be. That is why marriage is so important too, ( at least in my life) for with out the extension of the union I received I would not have what I do or have learned what I needed to learn.

I am grateful for siblings ( non in law and in laws) to get mad at, to help me get over my issues, to laugh with, to enjoy watching their journey no matter how hard it is for me. I am so blessed to be surrounded by love and  family that loves me even if I am crazy at times... Or seem to be transforming into what will either be a green ball of slime or a super hero....lol

THANK YOU MY WONDERFUL FAMILY NON-EXTENDED AND EXTENDED!!!! FOR YOU HAVE TRULY BLESSED MY LIFE!!!!