Sitting back and looking over the three wonderful full years Brandon and I have shared, I stand smiling and honored to be married to such a man. I do not know if every married couple feels this way, but I feel as if our three simple years we have experienced and lived through an entire life time. Like we are already an 80 year old couple ready to share what we have learned. We have shared great times, frustrating times and even more times of learning. Lately my husband and I have had the growing experience of starting up our own business. Many hours and frustrated tears have been put in to our business, and for a awhile (at different parts of building this business) I felt there was no way to continue while and still succeed. Brandon in the mean time had no doubt and had continued faith in our skills and how we will come out on top. After a few short months and me finally coming up to speed with the amazing brain the man has, our success took place.
The most valuable lesson I learned from all of this is that I am strong on my own, but I am unstoppable with God and Brandon completing my holes and making me whole.
When you get married, you come into the marriage being a individual. You are strong and most of the time you think you have a good idea on you are. Than this whole another person comes into your life, they too think they have a good idea who they are. The truth is you both will not be completely who you are truly meant to be, until you and your spouse rely on each other, depend on each other, and become a whole person. When you get married you are meant to become one, meant to function as one whole person. In a lot of the cases, where you slack your spouse should pick up, and visa versa. One perfectly working machine. Than and only than will you truly know who you are.
But what do I know, I have only been married three years...
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