When most think about their families almost always they think of the one person that hurts them the most within that family. I have lived through a lot of family issues and can honestly say Family is never easy. For this reason alone I have chosen a fight to fight for. I fight for the strength and healing we gain from our families, even through all of the hurt.
How many times have I been hurt by a loved one, how many times I have wanted to run away and pretend that the only family I have is my little family growing around me. But luckily I have been shown wisdom, and truth in working out my issues and love unconditionally with those that it comes less easyily. Many times I have asked why Lord, why was I put in this family. I have asked how come I am so different, so "not from this family". The answers that come are not answers I like to hear.
Often I am chastised for not realizing the beauty of these people around me, even more often I am scolded with the reminder that I chose these beings to be in my life and agreed to be in theirs.The final thought comes from Sheri Dew...." If it were to be easy, than it wouldn't be worth it."
If all of this is true I think... Than my family most certainly must be worth it. lol
In all reality I have learned many wonderful lessons from my family. As I have prayed and allowed my heart to become whole. As I have grasp understanding from forgiveness, love and respect. I see how glorious it is to be in a family. How like the Proclamation to the world states, " The family is ordained of God". That God has orchestrated such a beautiful plan to put us in family unites, to have a righteous matriarch and patriarch lead and guide the way for all the children to come. How healing and inpsiring it is to have such.
The best part is knowing that even if you were not blessed with such Parents, that you can heal them and your self by going forth and doing what the lord has asked of you. By taking the stand and shining forth of how a family should be.. You can heal generations in the past and future. For I believe that there is nothing stronger than a whole and strong family.
Families are meant to be the strongest force upon this earth. And for this reason alone Families are the most attacked on all levels. My hope and dream is to have the idea of Families awakened. To have the world covered with strong families united and standing firm on all things in Christ. For I believe this is the design God originally had in store.
Standing Amongst a Family I am proud to call mine,
Kamie Renee Mysliwiec
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Thursday, February 17, 2011
What it takes to have eternal love....
I have pondered this question, for quite some time now... The answers I have received have shocked me and inspired for the better, in more ways than one. Some may not want to hear what the answer is, some may not understand why the answer would even make since, but I hope to explain it and help all those to know the answer that have come to me, is the truth.
To have eternal love we must have an eternal family.
Yes Family is the answer. It starts with a strong mother and father, which is also a strong husband and wife. With this foundation not only can there be eternal love in their life but it will grow to their posterity as well. A strong foundation of the family ironically enough, takes a family to build it. At first I felt that Husband and Wife were the only keys, but in all reality for that one husband and wife it goes back for them and also goes onward . They need family on all sides to teach and guide them to create their own firm brick of the foundation.
For example... Brandon and I can only be as whole as we allow our cores to be. We have it in our duty to God and our future generations to heal ourselves were wrongs have been done in the past. To create and have whole and healthy life for our kid,s so that our onward generations can have a jump start on gaining the right building blocks to create their worlds. As for our past, we need to heal and find the leaks that may or not have been created by those before us, so that we can go forth and hand our children a solid brick to gain from instead of only passing on crumbles.
I have also learned that children( In the wise and blessed tender years of innocence) are there to inspire and guide us and parents for the better. If it were not for my children many lessons would have gone un-learned, and many blessing would have been denied. This may sound weird but, my children are a major source of my understanding. As I raise them and teach them in the ways of the lord, and try my hardest to make sure that their cores are solid and un-broken, I learn of where my core needs filling, and where I can be healed. If it were not for their sweet laughs and the endless amount of love that fills my soul ever day I would not understand what it takes to Love others, my self, and my spouse endlessly. IF it were not for my spouse raising my children right along side me,I would not learn what I am lacking as parent as I see how well he takes care of the situation. CHILDREN are needed, Just as much as they are wanted. With out them the future would not have bricks to build with.
In this day and age every thing that has to do with family is looked upon with negative out look by most of the world. Getting married, having kids, wanting to spend time with your family, all of it is a crazy notion. more and more of it, is wrong. I guess I should say that those things per say aren't looked down upon, but if done too soon, or with too many or to often, then the notion starts. THE TRUE FAMILY LIFE IS BEING WEEDED OUT AND WITH OUT A FIGHT!
No longer will sit by and let this happen... WE NEED ETERNAL FAMILIES! WE NEED LOVE THAT LAST THROUGH THE ETERNITIES! Neither one is possible with out the other. I will fight for this cause because no one will be whole with out it. I will fight for this cause, Because It is what the Lord has set up and what he has divinely planned for us all!
This is what it takes, this is the answer... and I feel if you will search in your souls you will all know of the truthfulness as well. JOIN ME IN THIS FIGHT! FAMILIES are way to sacred to be disregarded any more!
Love and passion from a voice no longer quite!
Kamie Renee Mysliwiec
To have eternal love we must have an eternal family.
Yes Family is the answer. It starts with a strong mother and father, which is also a strong husband and wife. With this foundation not only can there be eternal love in their life but it will grow to their posterity as well. A strong foundation of the family ironically enough, takes a family to build it. At first I felt that Husband and Wife were the only keys, but in all reality for that one husband and wife it goes back for them and also goes onward . They need family on all sides to teach and guide them to create their own firm brick of the foundation.
For example... Brandon and I can only be as whole as we allow our cores to be. We have it in our duty to God and our future generations to heal ourselves were wrongs have been done in the past. To create and have whole and healthy life for our kid,s so that our onward generations can have a jump start on gaining the right building blocks to create their worlds. As for our past, we need to heal and find the leaks that may or not have been created by those before us, so that we can go forth and hand our children a solid brick to gain from instead of only passing on crumbles.
I have also learned that children( In the wise and blessed tender years of innocence) are there to inspire and guide us and parents for the better. If it were not for my children many lessons would have gone un-learned, and many blessing would have been denied. This may sound weird but, my children are a major source of my understanding. As I raise them and teach them in the ways of the lord, and try my hardest to make sure that their cores are solid and un-broken, I learn of where my core needs filling, and where I can be healed. If it were not for their sweet laughs and the endless amount of love that fills my soul ever day I would not understand what it takes to Love others, my self, and my spouse endlessly. IF it were not for my spouse raising my children right along side me,I would not learn what I am lacking as parent as I see how well he takes care of the situation. CHILDREN are needed, Just as much as they are wanted. With out them the future would not have bricks to build with.
In this day and age every thing that has to do with family is looked upon with negative out look by most of the world. Getting married, having kids, wanting to spend time with your family, all of it is a crazy notion. more and more of it, is wrong. I guess I should say that those things per say aren't looked down upon, but if done too soon, or with too many or to often, then the notion starts. THE TRUE FAMILY LIFE IS BEING WEEDED OUT AND WITH OUT A FIGHT!
No longer will sit by and let this happen... WE NEED ETERNAL FAMILIES! WE NEED LOVE THAT LAST THROUGH THE ETERNITIES! Neither one is possible with out the other. I will fight for this cause because no one will be whole with out it. I will fight for this cause, Because It is what the Lord has set up and what he has divinely planned for us all!
This is what it takes, this is the answer... and I feel if you will search in your souls you will all know of the truthfulness as well. JOIN ME IN THIS FIGHT! FAMILIES are way to sacred to be disregarded any more!
Love and passion from a voice no longer quite!
Kamie Renee Mysliwiec
Subscribe to:
Comments (Atom)