Relationships... easier to mend than he will let you think.

All of us have had a relationship with one person or another...we are brothers, sisters, Moms, sons, Dads, daughters, Friends, acquaintances,bosses, employees, and strangers. The list continues of how each of us effect each other. One of the reasons I believe we came to this earth was to better the lives of everyone we might have a relationship with.  The hard part isn't always finding and building the relationships, but keeping them going strong. So many times we have said the wrong thing,took the wrong action. Or we even hurt or offended some one we care for. All of this I am glad to admit is part of being human and living life. The hard part I fear... is over coming these situations. I find it the hardest thing to ever do.. is face the person you have wronged in one way or the other and try to make amends. Especially if you have felt wronged in part as well.  As humans our emotions are meant to be strong and passion filled. It is one of things that separates us form all else.. Our emotions make us strong, and weak. We must find a balance and know how to channel our weakness into strengths. We must still feel the passion of the emotion and express it in a calm and rational way at times and others let the passion unleash.. the trick is knowing when and how.
The adversary would like us to think that we can't over come our emotional differences. He wants us to believe that some things just can't get worked out. That our emotions got the best of them or us and, " there is no point now... just forget them and move on with your lives."  While it is wise to move on.. its not okay to forget the person. We must heal the relationship.. than let of what has been wronged and than move on together. The adversary doesn't have relationship's like we do... he can't and he is envy of that. Why would we want to let him get his way?
It is a lot simpler than he wants us to think.... all it takes is the effort of wanting it. Than communicating with one another in UN-judging love. It takes one to make the step and the other to embrace the action. No it is no the funnest thing we will ever do, but the efforts will prove worth it in the end, far more than not having done anything. Just try......wonders may come from it.

Love Kamie