When most think about their families almost always they think of the one person that hurts them the most within that family. I have lived through a lot of family issues and can honestly say Family is never easy. For this reason alone I have chosen a fight to fight for. I fight for the strength and healing we gain from our families, even through all of the hurt.
How many times have I been hurt by a loved one, how many times I have wanted to run away and pretend that the only family I have is my little family growing around me. But luckily I have been shown wisdom, and truth in working out my issues and love unconditionally with those that it comes less easyily. Many times I have asked why Lord, why was I put in this family. I have asked how come I am so different, so "not from this family". The answers that come are not answers I like to hear.
Often I am chastised for not realizing the beauty of these people around me, even more often I am scolded with the reminder that I chose these beings to be in my life and agreed to be in theirs.The final thought comes from Sheri Dew...." If it were to be easy, than it wouldn't be worth it."
If all of this is true I think... Than my family most certainly must be worth it. lol
In all reality I have learned many wonderful lessons from my family. As I have prayed and allowed my heart to become whole. As I have grasp understanding from forgiveness, love and respect. I see how glorious it is to be in a family. How like the Proclamation to the world states, " The family is ordained of God". That God has orchestrated such a beautiful plan to put us in family unites, to have a righteous matriarch and patriarch lead and guide the way for all the children to come. How healing and inpsiring it is to have such.
The best part is knowing that even if you were not blessed with such Parents, that you can heal them and your self by going forth and doing what the lord has asked of you. By taking the stand and shining forth of how a family should be.. You can heal generations in the past and future. For I believe that there is nothing stronger than a whole and strong family.
Families are meant to be the strongest force upon this earth. And for this reason alone Families are the most attacked on all levels. My hope and dream is to have the idea of Families awakened. To have the world covered with strong families united and standing firm on all things in Christ. For I believe this is the design God originally had in store.
Standing Amongst a Family I am proud to call mine,
Kamie Renee Mysliwiec
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